Words of Innocence and Experience

Now I find that most of the time
Love’s not enough in itself
–Depeche Mode “Love in Itself”

This place is seriously in lack of pictures, so here’s one full of love.

Sometimes friendships are very puzzling. You consider someone to be your friend, and you get along with him/her better and better as the feeling of acquaintance grows. However, something testing your friendship will occur, shaking your faith in him/her.

Confucius defines three types of friends as possitive friends–those who are either upright, forgiving, or wise. Yet when you start to evaluate what beneficial influences a friend can bring to you, isn’t it cold and business-like?

Well, at least friends should care about one another. But recently I feel that some of my ‘friends’ don’t care for me at all. They come in search of me whenever they need something from me, while most of the time they are not concerned about my well-being. Are those people my friends?

It doesn’t matter. However caring and helpful a person is, she can become extremely tired and skeptical of her friends’ intentions. She know who are the ones really caring for her and who are the ones she really cares for.